SOLERA DIAMOND VALLEY | JULY 2025 9
By Suzette Strauss, Resident
What a hoot! Our table raised our pinkies and
our voices as we shared stories and laughed our
way through our recent SDV Lifestyles event titled,
"Ladies High Tea." I simply loved seeing all the ladies
dressed up and many with adorable hats perched
upon their heads.
I thought it would be fun to review some of the
etiquette of this tradition which began with the
British and has been adapting to American tastes and
social contexts.
Dress: While not overly formal, presentable attire
is generally expected. Hats seem to be optional and
gloves, though elegant, are also optional.
Table Manners: Place your napkin on your lap,
keep your phone out of sight, and avoid clinking your
spoon against the cup. Stirring your tea is done in a
gentle back-and-forth motion rather than a circular
motion.
Social Customs: Participate in conversation, take
small bites of food, and avoid slurping your tea.
Teacups should be placed in their saucers when not
in use. Scones, spreads, and small sandwiches are
the expected foods and fingers are appropriate for
eating. Never eat dessert first. Leovers are le
behind, unless it is offered that you may take some
home.
Finally, the time of High Tea can vary, however,
the idea is that as a snack and social between lunch
and dinner.
I know I'll be better prepared for the next time.
Pinkies up ladies!
A special "ank you!" goes to Ann Lontz, for
allowing me to share her beautiful hand-quilted
masterpiece that is so apropos.
PINKIES UP
